15 April 2026 @ 11:09 am
Gypsophila elegans, pink Linaria and Swan Rover daisies )

Kale )

Tumbled the entirety of the tub of flax into a deeper pot without splitting up the root-ball at all. The marigolds are the other thing that really needs potting up, but that means finding a lot of individual pots and of compost to fill them, and I couldn't face it.

No sign of germination from my second attempt at chives, despite the success of the spring onions; I'm afraid the seed library appears to have been a dead loss on my first attempt. I hope the seed I donated there is doing better for other people :-(
 
 
14 April 2026 @ 04:14 pm
Reading a few people on my f-list who always have interesting things to say about writing, I was moved to reread Dorothy Bryant’s Writing a Novel (I always want to call her Dorothy Allison, who is another person altogether). Not all of it works for me, but I find it interesting and sometimes motivating. For today “Remember that detailed planning is of great value, but only if you understand that it does not work. By that I mean you cannot expect your careful planning to solve in advance many of the problems you will run into while writing, nor help you avoid making changes you must make. It is through the writing itself that you learn what you are trying to write. You write some of it, and it’s not quite right, but the process of writing sets deep forces in motion. (That’s why if you miss a day you feel as if getting started again is like moving mountains.) These deep forces shift you to a new place, slightly closer to what you can write. Day by day, as you write, everything keeps shifting and changing under your hands. The plan helps in this process, but only if you are ready to deviate from it as you begin to see your direction more clearly.”

From my favorite singer, not a song this time but a game livestream (from last summer sometime). Unlike Liu Chang, Jiang Dunhao does not do livestreams on the regular (“I never know what to say”), so this is a bit of an exception. He’s playing a game called inZoi? which seems to be a kind of slice-of-life? in a city where they speak an annoyingly random language? and makes himself an avatar wearing one of his own typical striped shirts (with a lot of cute little “Nope!”s in English when he doesn’t like the options presented). It’s not all that exciting to watch, but like Liu Chang’s game livestreams, excellent for listening practice, since his narration reflects what’s happening on screen, plus the style of the game means there are a lot of everyday words coming up. (The first thing he does is go to the karaoke box on the game map, where he is somewhat appalled to find that his avatar sings really badly.)
(okay, I lied, here’s a song too, even though I think I’ve already posted this one: 掉了, just because it blows my mind every time.)

For work reasons, I came across this list of large cardinal properties (I don’t even know what cardinals are, other than cardinal-versus-ordinal, not counting the religious ones and the red birds) and found it extremely delightful. I know for math people, including those on my f-list, it must make actual sense, but I just like the existence of worldly cardinals, weakly and strongly inaccessible cardinals (need to apply this categorization to the local authorities, utilities companies, etc.), unfoldable cardinals, shrewd cardinals, almost and totally ineffable cardinals, ethereal cardinals, subtle cardinals, remarkable cardinals, almost high jump cardinals, super almost huge cardinals, and so on.

Antonia Forest fans may be amused to note that there’s a kid called Juki at the Saturday juku; also another boy called Mokuren, a very pretty name which means “magnolia” (I haven’t seen the characters but presumably it’s 木蓮, although these days you never know). Some of the modern kira-kira names I find too much, as in the previous post, but at least it’s more interesting than everyone being named Hiroshi or Daisuke or Keiko or Miyuki (depending on the generation).

Still working my way through the Chinese edition of The People at No. 1 Siwei Street; the dialogue is very cute in Chinese. Seriously confusing myself because there’s a character who is mostly just called the landlady, 房东, but because I know there’s a landlady character, I keep looking at 大家 and wanting to read it that way (“landlord/-lady” in Japanese, “everyone” in Chinese). Also I can’t believe I now know how to say both “pillowfriend” and “fuckbuddy” in Chinese (床伴 and 炮友, if anyone cares); clearly I have made some fundamental mistake somewhere in my self-guided Chinese education.
More silly Chinese: People online using on-the-spot loan words written in hanzi, like 哦莫 (Korean “omo,” kind of “oy vey”) or 摩西摩西 (Japanese “moshi-moshi,” telephone hello doubling as “hey you, wake up there”).
When I need spare names for original Chinese characters (I mean, people, not letters) I have a secret weapon: searching for chorus or orchestra rosters in Chinese. The former usually separates members by voice part and the latter often comes with photos, making it easy both ways to check name gender, and there are lots and lots of names to mix-and-match first and last. Also interested that Western orchestra instruments seem to have multiple translations: for the contrabass I’ve mostly seen 低音提琴, low violin, but also 倍大提琴 which is literally “double bass” (or “double cello,” anyway). Also the 法国号, French horn, which also goes by 圆号, round horn; the cor anglais seems to be literally the 英国管 as well. The harp is 竖琴, vertical-stringed-instrument (琴 is the word for “zither” but can refer to anything with strings, the violin family as above is various 提琴s and even rock guitarists and bass players will refer casually to their axes as 琴 as well). Timpani are 定音鼓, fixed-tone drums.

Visit to Arima, a hot spring spa with centuries of history as a tourist destination (possibly millennia; the original hot spring visitors were gods, if you follow the local legend). Lots of cherry blossoms, because it’s in the mountains and they bloom later; steep hills everywhere (my knees are not in good shape right now and the hills were a challenge; does anybody have any good exercise ideas that are easy on the knees?); the “Jealousy Spring” said to puff out steam whenever a beautiful woman walks by; a local train using rolling stock from sixty years ago; soda-water senbei, which you’re supposed to eat within five seconds (literally) after they come off the griddle, because the first bite is chewy and after that they get crisp (they taste like old-fashioned fortune cookies); and of course the hot springs, notable for their copper-colored water, like bathing in a mud puddle but actually very clean and soothing (see here, not where we stayed but the photos are nice). (No wonder I’ve read at least one murder mystery in which the Arima waters are used to conceal an exsanguinated victim.)

Photos: Way too many cherry blossoms, mostly from Arima; I still maintain that they’re not my favorite flowers, but they sure are photogenic. Two cats: Koron-chan with an elegant little halo, and an offended stray at a safe distance. Some maples: the red leaves are not actually painted on the wall, they just look like it. Message on a mailbox that cracked me up. A bounty of kumquats going to waste because they’re growing on the train side of the railway fence, meaning nobody can pick them (I suppose the railway company could, but logistically it wouldn’t be easy). An alleyway in Arima and a temple entrance which looks like it’s off in the mountains somewhere but is actually right in the middle of my large city.







Be safe and well.
 
 
13 April 2026 @ 10:35 pm
Sometimes it seems that everyone else is watching/reading Heated Rivalry.
Meanwhile YouTube presents me with Soviet Russia doing this:
 
 
12 April 2026 @ 05:44 pm
We recently lost a very dear member of our community here at [community profile] drawesome. [personal profile] minoanmiss loved creating and connecting with people. She was a really special person, and her thoughtful packages, art postcards and stickers brought so much joy to those in her orbit.

We say goodbye to our friend [personal profile] minoanmiss, and will always remember her fondly.

Remembering Minoanmiss

You're welcome to share your own pictures and remarks about [personal profile] minoanmiss in the comments of this memorial post.

Here are some of her artworks that she sent me over the years, including from our annual community card exchange: Photos )

Written by [personal profile] mekare:
"Minoanmiss was an active participant right from the start of our [community profile] drawesome community back in 2017. In her own words: "This community has been absolutely WONDERFUL for me, and I can't say enough how much I enjoy participating here."

She let everyone feel welcome, commenting, drawing for almost every challenge (sometimes multiple pieces) and suggesting many creative challenge ideas herself (a lot of which were later used to spark everyone's creativity).

Her first artistic contribution was Poison Ivy for the second challenge, and she continued to delight us with more characters from comics universes, mermaids, figures from mythology and of course Minoan ladies (sometimes in space).

We are going to miss her dearly."

 
 
11 April 2026 @ 11:58 pm

I keep forgetting to post about this: we've been troubleshooting the "missing notifications" problem for the past few days. (Well, I say "we", really I mean Mark and Robby; I'm just the amanuensis.) It's been one of those annoying loops of "find a logical explanation for what could be causing the problem, fix that thing, observe that the problem gets better for some people but doesn't go away completely, go back to step one and start again", sigh.

Mark is hauling out the heavy debugging ordinance to try to find the root cause. Once he's done building all the extra logging tools he needs, he'll comment to this entry. After he does, if you find a comment that should have gone to your inbox and sent an email notification but didn't, leave him a link to the comment that should have sent the notification, as long as the comment itself was made after Mark says he's collecting them. (I'd wait and post this after he gets the debug code in but I need to go to sleep and he's not sure how long it will take!)

We're sorry about the hassle! Irregular/sporadic issues like this are really hard to troubleshoot because it's impossible to know if they're fixed or if they're just not happening while you're looking. With luck, this will give us enough information to figure out the root cause for real this time.

 
 
12 April 2026 @ 02:15 am
"People who go quiet when hurt" -- apparently this is a new piece of pop psychology. https://www.bolde.com/psychology-says-people-who-go-quiet-when-theyre-hurt-arent-shutting-you-out-they-learned-early-that-pain-leads-to-these-10-consequences-so-silence-feels-safer/

But the conclusions they draw just don't ring true to me at all. No, I don't 'reach out' when I'm hurt; I don't respond well to group sessions or psychotherapy, because my instinct is to shut up like a clam and I'm not just dying to tell the world about all the times someone humilated or cheated me (why would I want to expose my own failures?) In fact I know people who are never happier than when they are talking about how wronged they are, and I find it frankly uncomfortable to be around.
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11 April 2026 @ 02:55 pm
Pricked out the Gypsophila vaccaria from its brown-paper pot, where the compost was worryingly dry despite the fact that I'd watered it only about ten minutes before; the other paper pots should probably be disposed of too.

I think we have dill germination, though I still can't be sure if any of the other seedlings in there are winter purslane or not. The double-fronded seedling was definitely a California poppy (and a fairly unhealthy-looking one) so I have disposed of it.

Winnowed the last of the 2024 basil in its brown paper bag, and sowed it. My previous attempt using commercial seed has clearly failed; the timing was over-optimistic. (I should, of course, be winnowing the 2025 basil seed and using that for preference, rather than trying to 'use up' the old bag first...)

I have been thinning/harvesting the lettuce, and probably ought to be sowing some more in order to have a progression; I harvested my first real crop of rocket today, and the kale has been yielding well (although it is now being afflicted by some kind of sap-suckers on the young growth).
 
 
11 April 2026 @ 01:07 pm
Igor Starygin appears as Algernon in the cigarette-case scene from the Soviet adaptation of "The Importance of Being Earnest":

The part clearly offered scope for his latent intelligence and mischief, as well as illustrating Soviet directors' tendency to cast him in 'white-bone' (aristocratic) roles...
 
 
11 April 2026 @ 12:45 am
Chapter 28 of the "Three Musketeers" Russian audiobook is definitely *very* much abridged; the story here cuts from Athos' drunken confession (and d'Artagnan's attempt to evade any further revelations by pretending to have fallen asleep) at the end of the previous chapter directly to all four characters back in Paris and being abruptly summoned off to war, with all the would-be comic episodes of the loss of the valuable English horses being omitted altogether. Which means that the entirety of the surviving content of the chapter only lasts about three minutes; one wonders why they didn't just roll it into the start of the following chapter and adjust the numbering of the edited version...!
 
 
10 April 2026 @ 02:55 pm
I planted up the furry hedgehog wildlife garden that I was given before Christmas Read more... )

Mesembryanthemum and strawberries )

Towel-tomatoes )

Roma tomatoes )

The dwarf peas have put out their first tendrils; the sweet peas have not yet produced tendrils, but required sticks simply to hold them upright, especially after the winds we have been having...

There are now four definite spring onion seedlings ;-)
 
 
09 April 2026 @ 09:24 pm
This coming Wednesday marks my very last alimony payment. It's a strange moment. I can't decide if it feels like we've been divorced longer or not as long, but either way five years feels like the wrong amount of time. (Yes, we didn't have the hearing until June of 2021 but the alimony payments started in April and we agreed they would last five years.) Bill's doing fine, financially. I'm sure he's appreciated this lil monthly boost but he doesn't need it anymore. He even floated the idea a few years ago of changing the amount but I didn't want to deal with the paperwork.

Jason, unsurprisingly, is pretty stoked about the prospect of extra income.

We finished our cat-themed sketchbooks on Monday. All but a handful of pages had fallen out so I pulled out the rest and reordered them with the intention of getting them all bound into a single volume. Lesson learned: threadless.com sells shitty sketchbooks. Not shocking (they're primarily a t-shirt printer) but still disappointing. Anyway, we found a few copies of The Pop Manga Sketchbook at Ollie's recently so we're using those next. The paper is much better (we're actually drawing on both sides!) and though it claims to be a guided drawing journal, the prompts are small and easily ignored. We're shifting back to more cartoonish again, this time focusing on Neopets. Elliott is joining us as well, which is fun. Hopefully he keeps it up. He started drawing with us when we were still doing Pokémon but got bored pretty quickly.

I was super into Neopets for a brief time. I discovered the site during a long TDY back when I worked for Night Vision. It was basically just a bunch of flash games with cute pets you could dress up. I haven't been back to the site in over a decade but when Jason tried it the other day he said it was just a miserable mess of ads. So it can live in my memory, untouched by modern truths. The art remains very cute, and (so far) Jason has managed not to buy too many of the trading card packs. (Yet.)

I read an interesting alternate take on gratitude journals the other day. Instead of listing things they're grateful for, they phrase it more like "what's the best thing that happened today" or "what was the best part of today" and I think I like that a lot better because it's a bit more specific and probably less prone to repetition. Sure, every day I'm grateful to have Jason in my life but the best thing about each individual day will be more specific than that and sometimes completely unrelated. There might be days where the very best thing that happened was that I splurged on a sour cream donut at 9:35am on a Thursday. Or that I discovered that a lady in my chorus has me in her email address book as "Kate Bass Leader Vienna Falls Rau." (Okay, so maybe it's unlikely that something actually better than kissing Jason will happen, but even I get bored extolling his virtues nonstop.)

No big news. Just felt like updating.
 
 
07 April 2026 @ 02:43 am
As with "Scaramouche", this was a book that I was a bit disappointed by when I first read it, having originally been excited to find a copy of after having seen and enjoyed the film version ("Under the Red Robe", 1937: It was a period of plot and counter-plot, of reckless gallantry and ruthless oppression ... the time of D'Artagnan, of Cyrano De Bergerac, of Gil De Berault, the "Black Death"). Doubtless I was hoping for a novelisation of what I've just seen, which this of course isn't -- although I seem to remember that it's rather closer in spirit than "Scaramouche".

But again, sufficient years have now elapsed that I have long since forgotten almost everything about the film save a vague favourable impression, and I am able to approach the novel on its own terms. And right from the start you realise that the author is doing something unexpected (and doing it very well): the protagonist, Gil de Berault, is quite recognisably *the villain* in this scenario, although of course he doesn't see himself that way.
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06 April 2026 @ 07:04 pm
Procrastinating (I'm not even sure what from any more, other than the overwhelming knowledge that I ought to be doing So Many Other Things) by filling out a set of meme question prompts from [personal profile] fred_mouse. Read more... )
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06 April 2026 @ 05:38 pm
Re-sowed the orange poppy, dill, nasturtium and chives, all of which appear to have failed without trace. (There may possibly be a dill seedling appearing around the edge of the pot, which tends to reinforce the suggestion that the seeds need light in order to trigger germination -- I scattered a fresh batch on the surface this time.)

Rocket )

Strawberries )
 
 
06 April 2026 @ 01:16 am
I realised while listening to Chapter 26 of the Russian audiobook of "The Three Musketeers" that the chapter had almost certainly been abridged, because we don't get the entire scene where the two churchmen and Aramis have a long and Latin-laced argument as to the suitability of the proposed subject-matter of his dissertation, and where d'Artagnan fails to understand a word of the Latin :-P In fact, on glancing at my French copy to check that the missing scene *was* located in this chapter and not on d'Artagnan's subsequent return, I noticed that the scene in the previous chapter where Mousqueton tells the story of how his father brought his two sons up as a Huguenot and Catholic respectively during the Wars of Religion is also missing, as is the entire narrative of how the excellent breakfast (which *is* described) has been obtained despite Porthos' lack of funds.

So I would guess that the translation and/or audiobook version has been extensively shortened. Given that the reading lasts for over 20 hours as it is, this really isn't unreasonable... ;-)
 
 
05 April 2026 @ 09:24 pm
My Internet service provider sent me an (unsolicited) new router, probably so that they could ensure that I had their up-to-date security firmware. Read more... )

This seems like a very good way of getting out of your recycling obligations, since I can't imagine many people are public-spirited enough to pay return postage on an object they never asked for in the first place; they will all simply go straight in the bin. ("Alternatively, you can find a local recycling centre at www.recyclenow.com" -- none of those appear to accept routers, or at least don't include them in the very long drop-down list of equipment types you have to pick from...)


The marigolds have suddenly popped up overnight...
 
 
04 April 2026 @ 09:13 pm
Me: That sounded like the beginning of the Superman theme.
Jason: That's what I was singing! "Kate is great, she is so great..."
Me: No, that's Star Wars.
Jason [singing to the tune of Superman]: Kate is great, she is so great...
Me: That's better.
Jason: It's not my fault they have the same words!

I got a speeding ticket the other day for the first time in I don't know how long. The last one I can remember was on the way to work at Fort Belvoir so it couldn't have been later than 2009. I've gotten a couple from speed cameras but this was my first experience being pulled over by a cop in ages. And I'm not mad about it - one of the roads I take to work has a short section where the speed limit dips from 40mph to 25mph and I spaced it. It's a rich community and it was 6:30 in the morning with nobody else around, so when I spotted the blue lights fire up on the otherwise dark and unmarked car I wasn't all that surprised. The next morning the cop was back again and I passive aggressively snarled "you're welcome!" to the car that was riding my bumper as we crawled by at 26mph. It wasn't easy to pay (the print on the ticket is very small and it turns out you have to pay by calling the number that the ticket says not to call) but at $200, it was cheaper than I was expecting.

Today we had our dry run honeymoon scenic train trip. We had talked about doing a scenic train trip to the national parks for our honeymoon, but neither of us had ever done it and might hate it, so we decided to do a local daytrip to try it out first. So that was today: the Potomac Eagle train through the Trough in Romney, West Virginia. We splurged on the highest tier - climate-controlled club car with loads of food served over the course of the three-hour trip. We hadn't realized there would be narration and music nonstop over the loudspeakers. The narrator was super monotone, but from her voice I think she's probably been doing it for longer than I've been alive. When she wasn't speaking, music was playing, and said music was about 95% bluegrass. Including previously unknown (to us) bluegrass versions of familiar pop and rock songs. Today was the day I learned that Jason has a limited tolerance for bluegrass. Bluegrass isn't my very favorite genre but I don't mind it. Jason swears he was not slowly losing his mind. Probably.

There was more birdwatching than we'd expected, too. The narrator announced at the end that we'd had 15 bald eagle sightings over the course of the trip, which I believe, but the fact is that I've seen a lot of bald eagles in my day, both in captivity and in the wild, so while they're neat to see, it's not exactly a life-changing experience anymore. That said, the scenery was lovely - the Trough is a narrow ravine between mountains where a river runs, and the train runs along the side of the one of the mountains. Train is the only way through besides canoe or raft (and we saw a few of those too).

Despite the lovely scenery and the knowledge that other scenic train trips will probably offer different audio experiences, I don't think we'll be doing it for our honeymoon. We had a good time but neither of us were blown away, and I felt vaguely seasick the entire time. We do, however, have ideas for a honeymoon road trip. More on that as it develops.
 
 
04 April 2026 @ 11:11 pm
I am currently on Lesson 18 of the second 'tele-course', which provides the comforting experience of understanding practically every word on the screen; this lesson was about winter sportsRead more... )

In my parallel progress through the two different course-books, I am currently in Lesson 9 (of 28) of "Colloquial Russian" from 1990 and Lesson 13 (of 30) of "The Penguin Russian АБВ" of 1965 Read more... )

I have finished listening to all the nine episodes of the Ali-Baba podcastRead more... )

I am 50 minutes into the filmed stage version of "Elsa's Land" -- which of course doesn't come with convenient English film-festival subtitles! -- and 7 hours 53 minutes (Chapter 26 -- "The Dissertation of Aramis") into Smekhov's reading of "The Three Musketeers", which if nothing else is helping to teach me my ordinal numerals thanks to repeatedly paging through the chapter numbers ;-)

I stumbled across a second upload of "Smok & Malish" and re-watched it straight through up to the point that I had previously 'been over' with the dictionaryRead more... )
 
 
04 April 2026 @ 11:03 pm
Potted up the ten Roma tomato seedlings, with some difficulty since the towelling on which the seeds were originally held had not yet disintegrated in many places -- I wonder if this was what was holding them back? They didn't have a lot of root; however, at least they now have some drainage.

Towel-tomatoes and chillies )

The dwarf peas have been moved out of the mini-greenhouse, where they appear to have thrived; it's hard to be certain, though, since I did after all put the best seedlings in there to start off with while leaving the more dubious peas outside! I tried to find a replacement for the photo-degrading mini-greenhouseRead more... )

We finally have germination among the coriander, coming up reassuringly in pairs, and we *may* have actual germination among the spring onions to confirm that all the other things that had come up hitherto in that pot were not, in fact, spring onions! (These seedlings look more leek-like, which tends to confirm that there are no chive seedlings in the chive pot.)

Dill and winter purslane )

There is one California poppy seedling in the pot where I sowed the white California poppy seed, but of course there is no way of knowing whether it germinated from the seed I put in there or was present in the compost anyway :-p

The miniature rose is now looking very dead, and the sweetbriar very alive. Marigolds and nasturtiums )

Tulips )
 
 
01 April 2026 @ 11:15 pm
I had vaguely come across the premise of this series, but hadn't realised that this book was in fact a sequel to a preceding volumeRead more... )
I'm afraid this is another case of a book that I enjoyed enough at the start to pick up and keep reading, but which I found myself progressively less enthused by as I continued.Read more... )